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Withdrawal, Silence & Loneliness: Psychotherapy of the Schizoid Process

- London, 30 & 31 October 2025, Thursday & Friday
Withdrawal, Silence & Loneliness: Psychotherapy of the Schizoid Process
🚀 Back by Popular Demand – This Workshop Will Fill Quickly. Early Booking is Strongly Recommended.
Schizoid: Greek for scissors/To split
The Schizoid Process is described as a split in a person’s sense of self that results in living behind a social façade—a carefully constructed exterior that masks an internal world of emotional detachment, hypervigilance, and self-protection. As psychotherapists, we understand this process as a violent splitting of the self, accompanied by an excessive internal critic that positions ‘the other’ as a persecutor rather than a source of relational safety.
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10:00 am – 4:00 pm, London UK on both days
Venue: Broadway House, Tothill Street, London SW1H 9NQ
Important: no online streaming is available for this event
Limited seating event, please book early to avoid disappointment.
Ticket price includes attendance at London plus video recording of the whole event .
Note: Lunch is provided to delegates attending in person.
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This course does not qualify for CE credits.
£ 279.00 Original price was: £ 279.00.£ 189.00Current price is: £ 189.00.

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Many clients come to therapy experiencing depression, profound loneliness, social anxiety, and relational difficulties. Often, they are plagued by a relentless internal critic and a deep sense of shame, using self-attack as a way to regulate emotions and avoid vulnerability. This psychological splitting is an attempt to preserve the vital and vulnerable aspects of Self by dissecting the whole self into manageable parts.
When working with such clients, it becomes imperative for us as therapists, to understand the difference between Splitting and Dissociation. Splitting means dividing the self into separate but coexisting parts (Me and Me and Me), while dissociation is a severance, where aspects of experience are disowned (Me and Not-Me).
In this two-day, in-depth workshop encapsulating the latest research, Dr Richard Erskine will first help us understand and identify the nuanced difference between these two states. Through rich case studies and clinical vignettes, Dr Erskine will explain how this splitting of the self is present in many clients yet often goes unrecognised in therapy – disguised by behavioural patterns that therapists may interpret as introversion, shyness, or self-sufficiency.
The coping dynamics of these clients are not simply theoretical constructs – they are deeply lived experiences that manifest in their silence, loneliness, and relational withdrawal. Their internal world is split between longing and defence, between the wish to connect and the compulsion to retreat.
How do we, as psychotherapists, enter this inner world without provoking further withdrawal?
Clients who have undergone the Schizoid process will typically present with unique clinical presentations which may be categorised as:
- The social self – outwardly engaged but emotionally distant; shaped by relational attachment patterns.
- The frightened, vulnerable self – hidden beneath layers of detachment, longing for attunement but fearing engulfment.
- The internal saboteur – the voice of self-attack, self-doubt, and chronic criticism, maintaining a powerful sense of control.
- The encapsulated self – a deeply protected inner world, withdrawn from relational contact and hard to access.
Drawing from Object Relations and Integrative Psychotherapy, Dr Erskine highlights the importance of recognising the hidden dynamics of internal fragmentation in the Schizoid process and how they affect a client’s sense of self, their attachment patterns, and their capacity for emotional engagement.
Workshop Focus: Understanding & Treating the Schizoid Process
Through rich case studies, clinical vignettes, and hands-on techniques, this workshop will explore:
- The four different levels of psychological splitting and how we can work therapeutically with the concomitant psychological fragmentation.
- Identifying the distinct ‘selves’ within the schizoid process and their unique clinical presentations.
- How the Schizoid Process relates to clients who present as depressed, shy, emotionally distant, or fearful of intimate relationships.
- Understanding the significance of internal criticism and shame – especially where shame serves as a protective strategy against humiliation, vulnerability, and loss of contact.
- How early relational trauma and attachment disruptions shape schizoid dynamics – and why some clients oscillate between compliance and withdrawal.
- The therapist’s role in attunement: Meeting sadness with compassion, fear with security, and anger with validation.
- Why silence is often misinterpreted in therapy – and how to differentiate between a client’s resistance, dissociation, or deep relational fear.
- Techniques for gradually fostering trust and safety in therapy, so clients can begin to integrate their fragmented selves rather than remain trapped in a cycle of self-protection.
Dr Erskine will illustrate how the self-stabilising process of internal splitting operates, highlighting correlations with:
- The five components of shame and how they interact with the schizoid experience.
- Attachment cycles, relational withdrawal, and the function of internal criticism.
- How compliance, avoidance, and fear of engulfment drive relational dynamics in therapy.
At the heart of this workshop is a developmentally based, relationally focused approach that integrates principles from Integrative Psychotherapy and Object Relations. Dr Erskine emphasises the importance of understanding the client’s phenomenological experience – their deeply personal, lived reality – so that we can meet their silence with understanding, their anger with empathy and their sadness with compassion as we help them in their journey to healing and a state of harmonious wholeness.
Learning from Dr Richard G. Erskine: A Masterclass in Working with the Schizoid Process
Dr Richard G. Erskine is internationally recognised for his pioneering contributions to Integrative Psychotherapy, Relational Attunement, and the Treatment of Psychological Splitting. His work bridges the gap between Object Relations, developmental neuroscience, and attachment theory, offering psychotherapists practical, clinically sophisticated ways to work with deeply withdrawn clients.
This two-day, in-person masterclass in London is a rare opportunity to experience Dr Erskine’s approach firsthand – through live clinical insights, detailed case analyses, and interactive discussions. Back by popular demand, this workshop has resonated strongly with clinicians in previous iterations, and places will fill quickly.
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When working with such clients, it becomes imperative for us as therapists, to understand the difference between Splitting and Dissociation. Splitting means dividing the self into separate but coexisting parts (Me and Me and Me), while dissociation is a severance, where aspects of experience are disowned (Me and Not-Me).
In this two-day, in-depth workshop encapsulating the latest research, Dr Richard Erskine will first help us understand and identify the nuanced difference between these two states. Through rich case studies and clinical vignettes, Dr Erskine will explain how this splitting of the self is present in many clients yet often goes unrecognised in therapy—disguised by behavioural patterns that therapists may interpret as introversion, shyness, or self-sufficiency.
Learning objectives
- The four different levels of psychological splitting and how we can work therapeutically with the concomitant psychological fragmentation.
- Identifying the distinct ‘selves’ within the schizoid process and their unique clinical presentations.
- How the Schizoid Process relates to clients who present as depressed, shy, emotionally distant, or fearful of intimate relationships.
- Understanding the significance of internal criticism and shame – especially where shame serves as a protective strategy against humiliation, vulnerability, and loss of contact.
- How early relational trauma and attachment disruptions shape schizoid dynamics – and why some clients oscillate between compliance and withdrawal.
- The therapist’s role in attunement: Meeting sadness with compassion, fear with security, and anger with validation.
- Why silence is often misinterpreted in therapy – and how to differentiate between a client’s resistance, dissociation, or deep relational fear.
- Techniques for gradually fostering trust and safety in therapy, so clients can begin to integrate their fragmented selves rather than remain trapped in a cycle of self-protection.
You'll also be able to...
Develop the ability to interpret and modulate the body’s nervous system (sensory and autonomic) to regulate arousal levels in clients and for safer trauma therapy
Identify and acquire recovery options and strategies for trauma clients inappropriate for trauma memory processing, particularly for those who don’t want to and those who decompensate or dysregulate from memory work
Also develop the ability to interpret and modulate the body’s nervous system (sensory and autonomic) to regulate arousal levels for professional self-care

Richard G. Erskine, Ph.D., is a Clinical Psychologist and Training Director of the Institute for Integrative Psychotherapy (New York City and Vancouver). Originally trained in client-centered child therapy, Dr Erskine also studied Gestalt therapy with both Fritz and Laura Perls. He is a certified clinical Transactional Analyst and a Licensed Psychoanalyst who has specialized in psychoanalytic self-psychology and object-relations theory. His work is an integration of these concepts and more than forty years of clinical experience, which has included working with disturbed children, inmates in a maximum security prison, borderline and narcissistic clients, post-traumatic stress and dissociative identity disorders. Recently his research and clinical practice have focused on the treatment of the schizoid process and on the psychotherapy of obsession.
He is the author of several books and scores of articles on psychotherapy theory and methods. His best-selling book (with Jan Moursund and Rebecca Trautmann) is Beyond Empathy: A Therapy of Contact-in-Relationship (1999, Brunner/Mazel) and in 2015, he has published Relational Patterns, Therapeutic Presence (Karnac). His latest book Early Affect Confusion: Relational Psychotherapy for the Borderline Client is being released in January 2022 by nscience publishing house.
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