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Unspoken Wounds: Understanding and Treating the Sexual Grief Effect

Speaker(s)

Edy Nathan

Course length in hours

7 hrs of video content

Course Credits

CPD: 7 / CE: 7

Unspoken Wounds: Understanding and Treating the Sexual Grief Effect

A three-part video series with Edy Nathan

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“She said the assault was behind her. She had moved on. But her body said otherwise — breath shallow, eyes darting, voice quiet. It wasn’t the trauma she couldn’t face. It was the grief — for the voice she lost, the touch that no longer felt safe, the parts of her that had gone silent.”

Sexual Grief is a specific and often unspoken form of grief that arises after a sexually traumatic predatory event, violation, or loss. It is not just grief for what happened — but for what was taken in its aftermath: safety, desire, trust, agency, and the ability to feel at home in one’s own mind and body. Unlike conventional grief, until now it has not been named as part of the imprint survivors carry after such an event. Nor has it been socially recognised, or directly addressed in therapy. And yet, its impact is profound.

This is the Sexual Grief Effect — a clinically significant, culturally silenced phenomenon that therapists must learn to recognise and treat. It presents not only in emotion, but in the body: in dissociation, shame or self-loathing, shutdown, overcompensation or hypervigilance, and a haunting sense of disconnection from having a relationship to one’s personal, social, and sexual identity. All of these disconnects lead to what Nathan refers to as the “amnesia of love.”

In this three-part video training, trauma therapist and grief specialist Edy Nathan introduces clinicians to the Sexual Grief Effect and her original model, The Liberation Protocol — which integrates trauma theory, somatic attunement, and dialogical tools adapted from hostage negotiation. With clinical depth, lived experience, and fierce compassion, Edy offers a practical and deeply human framework for helping clients reclaim what has been silenced.

Whether purchased as a full series or as standalone modules, this training invites us to work with sexual trauma not only as a wound, but as a grief — one that can be acknowledged, supported, and ultimately transformed.

A Training to Deepen the Work

This is not a course in sexual dysfunction, nor in trauma alone — but in grief. A grief that often arrives in silence, lives in the body, and erodes a person’s ability to feel safe, connected, or fully alive.

Edy Nathan brings to this training a rare blend of clinical expertise, personal insight, and therapeutic innovation. Through theory, casework, and embodied practice, she offers a language for what has long remained unnamed — and a path for helping clients reclaim the parts of themselves that trauma silenced. She shows clinicians how to help clients move out of self-loathing, integrate liberation, and remember love.

This course is suitable for psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors, and clinical professionals working with trauma, grief, embodiment, and relational repair.

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The video modules included in this bundle

Module 1: Naming the Unseen

Recognising and Addressing the Sexual Grief Effect

Some clients carry a grief they cannot name. Others speak fluently about trauma but avoid any mention of its impact on their personal, social, or sexual identity. Others struggle to understand how their trauma has affected their ability to live a curious and embodied life.

In this opening session, Edy Nathan introduces the Sexual Grief Effect — a distinct clinical phenomenon that blends trauma, identity rupture, and inhibited desire.

You’ll learn how to differentiate Sexual Grief from other trauma responses; how to recognise its often-misdiagnosed symptoms; and how to begin the therapeutic process using clear, validating language. Edy also outlines the foundational principles of The Liberation Protocol, her stepwise model for working with grief held in the body and relational field.

Key areas of focus include:

  • Define the Sexual Grief Effect as a dimension of trauma-related grief and articulate its unique clinical implications
  • Identify clinical signs that signal the presence of unspoken sexual grief
  • Describe the foundational components of The Liberation Protocol
  • Use therapeutic language that creates space for safety, agency, and voice

Module 2: Unspoken Patterns: How Sexual Grief Manifests Across Gender and Time

Clinical Insights and Responsive Strategies

Sexual Grief is shaped not only by external events, but also by developmental milestones shaped by gender and culture. In this module, Edy explores how gender identity and social conditioning influence how Sexual Grief is internalised and expressed. Drawing from cross-gender case material, she highlights how varied presentations — including erotic shutdown, performance-driven intimacy, and the amnesia of love — can reflect a profound disruption to the primal, life-affirming drive of sexuality itself. When trauma drives the psyche, soul, and body into shutdown — into what Edy refers to as the “dead zone” — this embodied grief reverberates far beyond the erotic. It can constrict emotional vitality, confidence, ambition, social connection, and the capacity for intimacy that feels nourishing and real.

You’ll gain insight into the gendered symptom patterns that often go unrecognised and learn how to adapt The Liberation Protocol in ways that honour intersectional identity, cultural context, and individual neurobiology.

Key areas of focus include:

  • Analyse how gender and identity shape the expression of Sexual Grief
  • Identify gender-specific clinical markers relevant to assessment and treatment
  • Understand how sociocultural narratives contribute to sexual disconnection or shame
  • Apply The Liberation Protocol in gender-informed, identity-sensitive ways

Module 3: From Silence to Somatic Expression

Embodied Approaches to Working with Sexual Grief

When grief is silenced and cannot be spoken, the pain is stored in the body. In this final session, Edy introduces the Sexual Grief Timeline — a therapeutic tool that helps clients map their relational, somatic, and developmental histories of sexual loss.

You’ll also be guided in the use of somatic cueing, narrative interruption, and embodied scripting to help clients reconnect with parts of themselves they’ve exiled or numbed. This is Sexual Grief work at its most integrative — supporting voice restoration, bodily safety, and a renewed capacity for connection and pleasure.

Key areas of focus include:

  • Describe how the body encodes and expresses Sexual Grief
  • Use the Sexual Grief Timeline to support pacing, exploration, and containment
  • Implement dialogical and somatic interventions to restore agency and voice
  • Support reconnection with the client’s bodily self, emotional vitality, and relational trust

What's included in this course

Learning objectives

  • Define the Sexual Grief Effect as a dimension of trauma-related grief and articulate its unique clinical implications
  • Identify clinical signs that signal the presence of unspoken sexual grief
  • Analyse how gender and identity shape the expression of Sexual Grief
  • Describe the foundational components of The Liberation Protocol and Apply The Liberation Protocol in gender-informed, identity-sensitive ways
  • Identify gender-specific clinical markers relevant to assessment and treatment
  • Use the Sexual Grief Timeline to support pacing, exploration, and containment

You'll also be able to...

Develop the ability to interpret and modulate the body’s nervous system (sensory and autonomic) to regulate arousal levels in clients and for safer trauma therapy

Identify and acquire recovery options and strategies for trauma clients inappropriate for trauma memory processing, particularly for those who don’t want to and those who decompensate or dysregulate from memory work

Also develop the ability to interpret and modulate the body’s nervous system (sensory and autonomic) to regulate arousal levels for professional self-care

About the speaker(s)

Edy Nathan is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City. Edy’s work focuses on topics surrounding the tough conversations people don’t like to have — grief, sex, and trauma. Her work in grief, trauma, and sexuality offers insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. She uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those held back by loss or trauma.
Edy has master’s degrees in Psychology, Drama, and Social Work, along with post-graduate work in Sex Therapy and Sex Education. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR clinician, psychodrama therapist, Psychology Today blogger, motivational speaker, and workshop leader. Edy is the author of It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss. Her next book, Sexual Grief Effect: Reveal the Shadow Wounds from Loathing to Liberation to Love, is in the works and proposed for publishing in 2025. You can connect with Edy at www.edynathan.com.

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